I am having some confusing regarding reflexive relations. Let's take an example $$\{(a,b):a+2b\ \text{must be divisible by 3, a and b are natural numbers}\}$$
Some elements of the relation are $(1,1),(2,2),(3,3), \cdots$ where $a = b$
But there are also some elements like $(1,4),(2,5),(5,10)$ etc. where $a \neq b$.
So would this relation be considered reflexive?