I am a third year maths student. I am self-studying a course on surfaces. I have some questions and would really appreciate it if people can help me.
What exactly is a connected sum? According to my lecture notes, for two closed (compact) surfaces, if we remove a closed disc from each then take a homeomorphism from the boundary of one disc to the other, we get another surface. My question is, what do we mean by 'closed disc' on a surface? Do we mean some kind of ball? But what metric are we using then?
When forming connected sum, does it matter if we don't remove a disc but something homeomorphic to a disc? Like a square or triangle for example. I don't think it matters.
It is stated that removing a closed disc from the projective space gives the Möbius band. I don't see why this is the case. Can we do it by the edge identification diagrams?
It is stated that the connected sum of two projective spaces is 'obviously' the Klein bottle. I think this is very non-obvious. How can I see this with edge identification diagrams?
Any help would be appreciated, I am learning from these notes if anyone is interested:
http://www.maths.ox.ac.uk/system/files/coursematerial/2012/2377/29/hitchin1.pdf
Lastly, I am likely to have many more questions about the geometry of surfaces. If anyone is interested in tutoring/helping me, please say so, I am looking for a teacher. I will pay you.