Suppose we extend the game as follows. We start off the same where we draw coins one at a time, but we number the draws and mark down which coin was drawn on which numbered draw. Once we reach the dime, we record the winner as usual, but we also continue drawing the remaining coins and marking the draw number of each.
In the end, we wind up with $n$ coins drawn, and the draw number for the dime is equiprobable among all $n$ draws. We mark the first player a winner if the dime was drawn in an odd-numbered draw, and we mark the second player the winner if the dime was drawn in an even numbered draw.
We know that this will yield the same results.
Next, all of the coins that were drawn on odd-numbered draws are distributed to the first player and all the coins that were drawn on even numbered draws are distributed to the second player. If the dime appears in the player's pile, we mark them as a winner again.
Again, we know that this will yield the same results.
Finally, we start over and mix up all the coins randomly and assign them into two piles. If $n$ is even, the two piles each have $\frac{n}{2}$ coins. If $n$ is odd, one pile has $\frac{n+1}{2}$ coins and the other has $\frac{n-1}{2}$ coins. We give one pile to one player and the other pile to the other. If the pile they are given contains a dime, we mark down the win.
But, we continue and allow them to take turns drawing coins from their own pile. If one pile more coins than the other, the first draw must be from the bigger pile. We mark whichever player draws the dime as the winner.
Again this yield the same results as the original game. We have just demonstrated different games, each with an injective set of outcomes. This demonstrates there exists a bijection between the sets of outcomes. Any probabilities of winning calculated for any of these three games applies to all three.
The easiest is of course the last game where you just split up the piles evenly and whoever has the dime wins.
I realize this was a lot of words, and it wasn't necessary to go through all of these steps. I explained it this way in hopes that it shows why it works.
If $n$ is even, the first player wins half the time and second player wins half the time. If $n$ is odd, the first player wins $\dfrac{n+1}{2n}$ while the second player wins $\dfrac{n-1}{2n}$ of the time.
Not knowing if $n$ is odd or even, there is a slight advantage in choosing to go first all the time, just in case $n$ is odd.