I'm an undergraduate student, who's in my final semester in university.
I have a research project, but the advisor isn't the best.
He said why won't we develop the notion of divisibility of ideals in a ring, and he defined it as follows: If $I, J$ are ideals in a commutative ring $R$, then we say that $$I \mid J \iff \exists K \subset R\ (I = JK)$$ where $K$ is an ideal of $R$.
I was like why don't we define it similarly to our definition of the divisibility in integers, because it will inherit so many properties, that: $$I \mid J \iff \exists K \subset R\ (J=KI) $$ where $K$ is an ideal of $R$.
He said because I in his definition is smaller than J, and that I can't know because I'm just an undergrad student, and that he has a PhD so I shouldn't question him, and I should just work on what he gave me, so I did for a while, and when it didn't make any sense to me, I stopped and returned to working on my own definition -which then I found out it's not mine- and he disappeared for two weeks, and I couldn't reach him.
Nonetheless I kept looking and reading in a number of graduate books looking for ideas to study the properties of this definition, I written 7 papers and when I was really excited to show him what I came up with.
When we had our meeting, I told him that his definition didn't make sense to me so I worked on mine and when I said that he threw the notebook away, refused to even see what I had written, and told me that I don't have the mathematical maturity to even discuss this with him, and just the fact that I disobeyed him shows that I'm not a serious person.
I was shocked by what he said, I couldn't even reply to that, I'm a very emotional person, and his words really hurt me.
So I kept looking for ways to prove my point to him, and found a paper by Keith Conrad, that uses exactly the definition I used, but I want to come up with more references that does this, or even if any that use his definition, just to know who is right.
I can't find any book that does this, can anyone help me with this?