I see that the need to apply the product rule when using curvilinear coordinates results in a term for the derivative of the coefficients that still follows tensor transformation rules, and that it is the derivative of the bases vectors that is the problem. But can I have that product rule spelled out in tensor notation with a plain English explanation of what in the second term breaks the transformation rules for tensors?
For instance what makes the second term below not tensorial specifically?
$$\partial_{\mu'} T_{\nu'}=\frac{ \partial x^\mu}{\partial x^{\mu'}} \frac{ \partial x^\nu}{\partial x^{\nu'}} \partial_\mu T_\nu +\frac{ \partial x^\mu}{\partial x^{\mu'}}T_\nu \partial_\mu\left(\frac{ \partial x^\nu}{\partial x^{\nu'}}\right) $$
In there the $\partial \mu$ transforms like
$$\partial_{\mu'}=\frac{ \partial x^\mu}{\partial x^{\mu'}}\partial_{\mu} $$
And the idea is to transform $$\partial_{\mu}T_\nu $$
Is it the $\mu$ index or both? What summation in that second summand messes things up and why?