If $X$ and $Y$ are sets, then $X\setminus Y=X\cap Y'$ by definition (where $Y'$ denotes the complement of $Y$ in some universal set). Also, if $X,Y,Z$ are sets, then $(X\cup Y)\cap Z=(X\cap Z)\cup (Y\cap Z)$ and $(X\cap Y)\cup Z=(X\cup Z)\cap (Y\cup Z)$(de Morgan's laws). If we use the first sentence of this answer, then we can compute:
(1) $(A\cup C)\setminus B=(A\cup C)\cap B'$, and
(2) $(A\setminus B)\cup C=(A\cap B')\cup C$.
Can you now use the second sentence of this answer (de Morgan's laws) to show that (1) and (2) are equal if and only if $B\cap C=\emptyset$? Hint: (1) and (2) can be rewritten, using de Morgan's laws, as:
(1') $(A\cup C)\setminus B=(A\cap B')\cup (C\cap B')$, and
(2') $(A\setminus B)\cup C=(A\cup C)\cap (B'\cup C)$.
Use the distributivity of $\cup$ and $\cap$ over each other (i.e, de Morgan's laws!) to rewrite (1') in a form similar to (2').
I hope this helps!
A \setminus B. – dfeuer Jul 15 '13 at 15:22