Break it down:
The statement is, 'for all $\epsilon>0$, $Q$ must be true'. Where $Q$ stands for the statement 'there is some $\delta>0$ such that, for all $x$, if $0<|x-a|<\delta$, then $|f(x)-l|<\varepsilon$'.
Clearly the negation of this is: 'there is some $\epsilon>0$ for which $Q$ is not true'.
What is the negation of $Q$? The statement $Q$ is, 'there is some $\delta>0$ such that $R$ is true' where $R$ is the rest of the statement. The negation of $Q$ is then, 'there is no $\delta>0$ such that $R$ is true' or equivalenty, 'for all $\delta>0$, $R$ is not true'.
What is the negation of $R$? The statement $R$ is, 'for all $x$, $S$ is true' where $S$ is the rest of the statement. Its negation clearly is, 'there is some $x$ for which $S$ is not true'.
Finally, the statement $S$ is, if $0<|x-a|<\delta$, then $|f(x)-l|<\epsilon$. How can this be false? This can be false only when $0<|x-a|<\delta$ is true and at the same time $|f(x)-l|<\epsilon$ is not true.
Put it all together:
There is some $\epsilon>0$ for which $Q$ is not true
OR
There is some $\epsilon>0$ such that for all $\delta>0$, $R$ is not true
OR
There is some $\epsilon>0$ such that for all $\delta>0$, there is some $x$ for which $S$ is not true.
OR
There is some $\epsilon>0$ such that for all $\delta>0$, there is some $x$ for which $0<|x-a|<\delta$ but not $|f(x)-l|<\epsilon$.
I suggest that you read a book about discrete mathematics. It will explain you how to write these statements using logical symbols and how to easily and immediately negate them.
Your statement in logical symbols is:
$$\forall \epsilon >0\,\,\exists \delta >0\,\, \forall x(0<|x-a|<\delta \implies |f(x)-l|<\epsilon)$$
Using facts such as: $\neg\forall x\,\, P(x)$ is equivalent to $\exists x\,\, \neg P(x)$, $\neg\exists x\,\,P(x)$ is equivalent to $\forall x\,\,\neg P(x)$ and $\neg(P \implies Q$) is equivalent to $P \land \neg Q$, you can easily arrive at the negation of the above statement which is, in logical symbols:
$$\exists \epsilon >0\,\,\forall \delta >0\,\,\exists x\,\,(0<|x-a|<\delta \land |f(x)-l|\geq \epsilon)$$
The symbols $\forall$, $\exists$, $\land$, $\implies$ and $\neg$ respectively mean, 'for all', 'there exists', 'and', 'implies' and 'negation of'.