In Nakaharas book (Geometry, Topology, Physics) he states the isometry condition and then derives the Killing equation ("by a simple calculation") on page 279:
$$\begin{equation}\frac{\partial(x^\kappa+\epsilon X^\kappa)}{\partial x^\mu}\frac{\partial(x^\lambda+\epsilon X^\lambda)}{\partial x^\nu}\end{equation}g_{\kappa\lambda}(x+\epsilon X) = g_{\mu\nu}(x) \tag{7.96b}$$
$$\begin{equation}X^\xi\partial_\xi g_{\mu\nu}+\partial_\mu X^\kappa g_{\kappa \nu}+\partial_\nu X^\lambda g_{\mu\lambda} = 0\tag{7.120a}\end{equation}$$
How does one derive the second from the first?