Consider $\varphi:\mathfrak{sl}_2(\mathbb F)\to \mathfrak{gl}_3(\mathbb F)$ sending $\begin{pmatrix} a & b\\ c & -a \end{pmatrix}$ to $\begin{pmatrix} 2a-c & -2a-2b+3c & -2a+3b-2c\\ -c & 3c & -2a+b-2c\\ 0 & 2c & -2a-2c \end{pmatrix}$
I want to find a basis of $\mathfrak{sl}_2(\mathbb F)$ such that $\varphi(x)$ is the matrix of $\text{ad}(x)$ with respect to this basis. ($\text{ad}(x)(y)=[x,y]=xy-yx$)
I would appreciate a way to proceed because the bases I found don't work, and I can't seem to find matrices which satisfy the condition to extract a basis $\begin{pmatrix} a & b\\ c & -a \end{pmatrix}\begin{pmatrix} x_1 & y_1\\ z_1 & -x_1 \end{pmatrix}-\begin{pmatrix} x_1 & y_1\\ z_1 & -x_1 \end{pmatrix}\begin{pmatrix} a & b\\ c & -a \end{pmatrix}=(2a-c)\begin{pmatrix} x_1 & y_1\\ z_1 & -x_1 \end{pmatrix}-c\begin{pmatrix} x_2 & y_2\\ z_2 & -x_2 \end{pmatrix}$
where $\begin{pmatrix} x_1 & y_1\\ z_1 & -x_1 \end{pmatrix},\begin{pmatrix} x_2 & y_2\\ z_2 & -x_2 \end{pmatrix},\begin{pmatrix} x_3 & y_3\\ z_3 & -x_3 \end{pmatrix}$ are the elements of the basis we want to find.
And we do this for each column of the 3x3 matrix.
Is this the way to go ?