Let $L$ be Lebesgue measure in $\mathbb R^n$, and let $m$ be another outer measure that satisfies properties (1) and (2).
Step 1. For any product of half-open intervals $B_1=\prod_{i=1}^n [a_i,b_i)$, we have $ \prod_{i=1}^n (a_i ,b_i) \subset B_1 \subset \prod_{i=1}^n (a_i-\epsilon ,b_i) $
for all $\epsilon>0$, so $m(B_1)=L(B_1)$ by monotonicity.
Step 2. Let $U$ be a bounded open set, so that $U \subset Q$ for some half-open dyadic cube $Q$.
Let $E$ be a finite union of half-open dyadic cubes contained in $U$. Then $m(E) \le L(E)$ by subadditivity, and similarly, $m(Q\setminus E) \le L(Q\setminus E)$, as $Q\setminus E$ is also a finite union of half-open dyadic cubes. Since $$L(Q)=m(Q) \le m(E)+m(Q\setminus E) \le L(E)+L(Q\setminus E) =L(Q) \,,$$
we deduce that $m(E)=L(E)$.
Step 3. Let $U,Q$ be as in step 2. Let $E_k=E_k(U)$ be the union of all half-open dyadic cubes of side $1/2^k$ contained in $U$. Then $$U=E_0 \cup \Bigl(\bigcup_{k=1}^\infty (E_k \setminus E_{k-1})\Bigr) \,.$$
Subadditivity implies that $$m(U) \le m(E_0)+ \sum_{k=1}^\infty m(E_k \setminus E_{k-1}) \,,$$
so (using this for the upper bound and monotonicity for the lower bound)
$$m(U)=\lim_k m(E_k)=\lim_k L(E_k)=L(U)\,.$$
Step 4. If $A \subset \mathbb R^n$ is bounded, then step 3 and property 2 imply that $m(A)=L(A)$.
Step 5. Given any $A \subset \mathbb R^n$, write $A_j=A \cap [-j,j]^n$.
Then $$m(A) \le m(A_1)+ \sum_{j=2 }^\infty m(A_j \setminus A_{j-1}) \,,$$
so (using this for the upper bound and monotonicity for the lower bound)
$$m(A) =\lim_j m(A_j)=\lim_j L(A_j)=L(A) \,.$$