I read a lot of questions like that here, but it takes me more confused.
In many books appear examples like:
$\textbf{A} = \{a, b, c\}$, so:
$\{a\}\subset\textbf{A}$ ,
$\{b, c\}\subset\textbf{A}$ etc.
But here I read things like:
If $\;\textbf{B}=\big\{a,b,\{c, d\}\big\}$, so $\textbf{B}$ has $3$ members:
$a\in\textbf{B}$ ,
$b\in\textbf{B}$ ,
$\{c, d\}\in\textbf{B}$ , but :
$c\not\in\textbf{B}$ and $d\not\in\textbf{B}$.
It made me more confused because:
If there is $x\in\textbf{P}$ and $\textbf{P}\subset\textbf{Q}$, so $x\in\textbf{Q}$.
E.g.: $1\in\mathbb Z$ and $\mathbb Z\subset\mathbb R$, so $1\in\mathbb R$.
In this case:
$\{c, d\}\subset\textbf{B}$ ?
$\big\{\{c, d\}\big\}\subset\textbf{B}$ ?
$\{c\}\subset\textbf{B}$ ?
$\big\{\{c\}\big\}\subset\textbf{B}$ ?