$$
\left\{
\begin{array}{c}
\left(x^2+1 \right)\left(y^2+1 \right)=12xy \\
\left(x+1 \right)^2\left(y+1 \right)^2=30xy
\end{array}
\right.
$$
$$
\iff \left\{
\begin{array}{c}
\left(x^2+1 \right)\left(y^2+1 \right)=12xy \\
\left(x^2+1+2x \right)\left(y^2+1+2y \right)=30xy
\end{array}
\right.
$$
$$
\iff \left\{
\begin{array}{c}
\left(x+\frac{1}{x} \right)\left(y+\frac{1}{y} \right)=12 \\
\left(x+\frac{1}{x}+2 \right)\left(y+\frac{1}{y}+2 \right)=30
\end{array}
\right.
$$
Put $A=x+\frac{1}{x}$ and $B=y+\frac{1}{y}$, we have
$$
\left\{
\begin{array}{c}
AB=12 \\
\left(A+2 \right)\left(B+2 \right)=30
\end{array}
\right.
$$
Solving the equations, we have $A=3, B=4$ or $A=4, B=3$.
When $A=3, B=4$ , we have
$$
\left\{
\begin{array}{c}
x+\frac{1}{x}=3 \\
y+\frac{1}{y}=4
\end{array}
\right.
$$
$$
\left\{
\begin{array}{c}
x=\frac{3\pm\sqrt{5}}{2}\\
y=2\pm\sqrt{3}
\end{array}
\right.
$$
When $A=4, B=3$ , we have
$$
\left\{
\begin{array}{c}
x+\frac{1}{x}=4 \\
y+\frac{1}{y}=3
\end{array}
\right.
$$
$$
\left\{
\begin{array}{c}
x=2\pm\sqrt{3}\\
y=\frac{3\pm\sqrt{5}}{2}
\end{array}
\right.
$$