If we think of the infinite power tower as a limit over a real height, I think the -1 case is comparable to the limit of $\cos 2 \pi n$. For integer $n$, it is always 1, but the limit over real $n$ doesn't exist.
If you define a crude version of fractional tetrarion -- eg $^{2.5}(x)=x^{x^\sqrt x}$, then for $0<x\le e^{1/e}$, the limit of tetrarion over the reals equals the one over the integers.
On the other hand, this breaks down for $-1$. To summarize, I think the limit existing is tied to some definition of fractional tetrarion. Even though I don't think that's a well established thing, it's hard to imagine it being "nice" for negative numbers.