Thank you to everyone who took much time and helped me to solve the questions. Here's the solution to the first problem after a lot of research and hints from teachers. Note that this solution is analogus to @RiverLi 's solution....
We can simplify $2x^2 + 72$ as $$2\cdot x^2 + 2\cdot6^2 + 2\cdot x\cdot6 - 2\cdot x\cdot6$$
or $$(x+6)^2 + (x-6)^2$$
now, we can easily simplify the RHS
$$\frac{2x^2+72}{x^2-36} = \frac{(x+6)^2+(x-6)^2}{(x+6)(x-6)} = \frac{(x+6)}{(x-6)}+\frac{(x-6)}{(x+6)}$$
sweet! plugging this outcome in the original question:
$$\frac{(x+6)(x-4)^2}{(x-6)(x+4)^2} + \frac{(x-6)(x+9)^2}{(x+6)(x-9)^2} < \frac{(x+6)}{(x-6)}+\frac{(x-6)}{(x+6)}$$
or
$$\frac{(x+6)}{(x-6)}\cdot\left[\frac{(x-4)^2}{(x+4)^2}-1\right]+\frac{(x-6)}{(x+6)}\cdot\left[\frac{(x+9)^2}{(x-9)^2}-1\right] < 0$$
after that, you can easily simplify and go on to find the range of $x$. Make sure to not encounter fourth degree polynomials and instead eliminate terms like squares, $x^2 + 36$ as they are never negative. Also make sure to intersect the domain of $x$ while cancelling terms in the denominator.
here's the working after this:
$\frac{(x+6)}{(x-6)}\cdot\left[\frac{((x-4)+(x+4))((x-4)-(x+4))}{(x+4)^2}\right]+\frac{(x-6)}{(x+6)}\cdot\left[\frac{((x+9)+(x-9))((x+9)-(x-9))}{(x-9)^2}-1\right] < 0$
or
$\frac{(x+6)}{(x-6)}\cdot\left[\frac{(2x)(-8)}{(x+4)^2}\right]+\frac{(x-6)}{(x+6)}\cdot\left[\frac{(2x)(18)}{(x-9)^2}\right] < 0$
cancel $4$ both sides, we get
$\frac{9x(x-6)}{(x+6)(x-9)^2} - \frac{4x(x+6)}{(x-6)(x+4)^2} < 0$
this simplied result gives me eternal satisfaction I needed for this question XD
simplifying further, we get
$x\cdot\left[\frac{9(x-6)^2(x+4)^2 - 4(x+6)^2(x-9)^2}{(x+6)(x-6)(x+4)^2(x-9)^2}\right] < 0$
or
$x\cdot\left[\frac{(3x^2-6x-72)^2 - (2x^2-6x-108)^2}{(x+6)(x-6)(x+4)^2(x-9)^2}\right] < 0$
sweet!
$\frac{(5x^2-12x-180)(x^2+36)}{(x+6)(x-6)(x+4)^2(x-9)^2} < 0$
now,
$5x^2-12x-180$ has no integer roots, so we shall apply the quadractic formula to find the roots of x. Don't lose hopes though as we can now freely eliminate x^2 + 36 , (x+4)^2 . (x-9)^2 (they are never negative :D)
this simplifies the equation to
$\frac{(5x^2-12x-180)}{(x+6)(x-6)} < 0$
too many spoilers right? i am providing the solution now :D
domain:
$$x \in (-\infty , -4) \cup (-4 , 9) \cup (9 , \infty)$$
range:
$$x \in (-\infty , -6) \cup \left(\frac{12 - \sqrt{3744}}{10} , 0\right)\cup \left(6 , \frac{12 + \sqrt{3744}}{10}\right)$$
intersecting the domain and the range, the finalllll answerrrrr:
$$x \in (-\infty , -6) \cup \left(\frac{12 - \sqrt{3744}}{10} , -4\right) \cup (-4 , 0) \cup \left(6 , \frac{12 + \sqrt{3744}}{10}\right)$$
eternal satisfaction reached