In Morrow & Kodaira's book Complex manifolds, p.84: Let $X$ be a complex manifold with a Hermitian metric $h$, to prove the associated $(1,1)$-form $\omega=\frac{\sqrt{-1}}{2}h_{i\bar j}dz^i\wedge d\bar z^j$ to be real, the authors give the proof: $$ \overline{\omega(\xi,\eta)}=\overline{\frac{\sqrt{-1}}{2}h_{i\bar j}(\xi^i\eta^{\bar j}-\eta^i\xi^{\bar j})}=-\frac{\sqrt{-1}}{2}h_{j\bar i}(\xi^{\bar i}\eta^j-\eta^{\bar i}\xi^j)=\omega(\xi,\eta). $$
It seems that the authors assume $\xi=\xi^i\frac{\partial}{\partial z^i}+\xi^{\bar i}\frac{\partial}{\partial \bar z^i}$ and $\eta=\eta^i\frac{\partial}{\partial z^i}+\eta^{\bar i}\frac{\partial}{\partial \bar z^i}$, and in their book, $\xi^{\bar i}=\overline{\xi^i}$, here my question is: why the the coefficients $\xi^{\bar i}$ before $\frac{\partial}{\partial \bar z^i}$ are chosen such that $\xi^{\bar i}=\overline{\xi^i}$? not just freely chosen? for example, $\xi=\frac{\partial}{\partial z}$?