Note that in all your examples, you are taking the smash product of two 1-manifolds. If we consider, say, the smash product $\overline{D} \land [0,1]$, where $\overline{D} = \{ x^2 + y^2 \leq 1\}$ is the closed unit disk in $\mathbb{R}^2$, and if we choose the basepoint $x_0$ of $[0,1]$ not to be an endpoint, then first we would have to cut along $\overline{D} \times \{ x_0 \}$, which is a two-dimensional cut along a three-dimensional space. This seems fine - it's like cutting a cucumber in half.
But then next we would have to cut along $\{ y_0 \} \times [0,x_0) \subset \overline{D} \times [0,x_0)$, which is a one-dimensional cut along a three-dimensional space. This would be like cutting along a one-dimensional line in the longtitudal direction of (a half of) the cucumber - what does that even mean?
Generally, (in the case of manifolds), it seems like cutting an $n$-dimensional manifold is only possible along an $(n-1)$-dimensional submanifold, and even then only under suitable conditions. (Maybe someone knows a relevant theorem in this direction?)
It follows, by a dimensional argument, that only the product of two $1$-manifolds will result in cuts all of which are one dimension lower than the space along which you're cutting, and hence can be visualized nicely as in your picture.
(By the way, I agree that $[0,1]\land [0,1]$ is a flower - another way to see it is to gradually shift the intersection points of the dotted lines with the boundary of the square to the middle.)