disjunctive normal form:
$ (Q \wedge \neg P) \vee (\neg Q \wedge P) $
there may be a shorter proof than what I outline below...
$\lnot (P \lor \lnot Q) \lor (\lnot P \leftrightarrow Q)$
$\lnot (P \lor \lnot Q) \lor \Big[ (\lnot P \to Q) \wedge (Q \to \lnot P)\Big] $ definition of biconditional
$\lnot (P \lor \lnot Q) \lor \Big[ (\neg\neg P \vee Q) \wedge (\neg Q \vee \lnot P)\Big] $ implication law
$\lnot (P \lor \lnot Q) \lor \Big[ (P \vee Q) \wedge (\neg Q \vee \lnot P)\Big] $ double negation law
$(\neg P \wedge \neg\neg Q) \lor \Big[ (P \vee Q) \wedge (\neg Q \vee \lnot P)\Big] $ DeMorgan's law
$(\neg P \wedge Q) \lor \Big[ (P \vee Q) \wedge (\neg Q \vee \lnot P)\Big] $ double negation law
$\Big[ (\neg P \wedge Q) \vee (P \vee Q) \Big] \wedge \Big[ (\neg P \wedge Q) \vee (\neg Q \vee \lnot P) \Big] $ distribution law
$\Big[ ((\neg P \wedge Q) \vee P) \vee ((\neg P \wedge Q) \vee Q)) \Big] \wedge \Big[ (\neg P \wedge Q) \vee (\neg Q \vee \lnot P) \Big] $ distribution law
$\Big[ ((\neg P \wedge Q) \vee P) \vee Q) \Big] \wedge \Big[ (\neg P \wedge Q) \vee (\neg Q \vee \lnot P) \Big] $ absorption law
$\Big[ ((\neg P \vee P) \wedge (Q \vee P)) \vee Q) \Big] \wedge \Big[ (\neg P \wedge Q) \vee (\neg Q \vee \lnot P) \Big] $ distribution law
$\Big[ (T \wedge (Q \vee P)) \vee Q) \Big] \wedge \Big[ (\neg P \wedge Q) \vee (\neg Q \vee \lnot P) \Big] $ negation law
$\Big[ (Q \vee P) \vee Q) \Big] \wedge \Big[ (\neg P \wedge Q) \vee (\neg Q \vee \lnot P) \Big] $ identity law
$(Q \vee P) \wedge \Big[ (\neg P \wedge Q) \vee (\neg Q \vee \lnot P) \Big] $ idempotent law
$(Q \vee P) \wedge \Big[ ((\neg P \wedge Q) \vee \neg Q) \vee ((\neg P \wedge Q) \vee \lnot P) \Big] $ distribution law
$(Q \vee P) \wedge \Big[ ((\neg P \wedge Q) \vee \neg Q) \vee \neg P \Big] $ absorption law
$(Q \vee P) \wedge \Big[ ((\neg P \vee \neg Q) \wedge (Q \vee \neg Q)) \vee \neg P \Big] $ distribution law
$(Q \vee P) \wedge \Big[ ((\neg P \vee \neg Q) \wedge T) \vee \neg P \Big] $ negation law
$(Q \vee P) \wedge \Big[ (\neg P \vee \neg Q) \vee \neg P \Big] $ identity law
$(Q \vee P) \wedge ( \neg P \vee \neg Q ) $ idempotent law
$ (Q \vee P) \wedge \neg P) \vee ((Q \vee P) \wedge \neg Q) $ distribution law
$ (Q \wedge \neg P) \vee (P \wedge \neg P) \vee (Q \wedge \neg Q) \vee (P \wedge \neg Q) $ distribution law
$ (Q \wedge \neg P) \vee F \vee F \vee (P \wedge \neg Q) $ negation law
$ (Q \wedge \neg P) \vee (P \wedge \neg Q) $ identity law