I operate with the parabola definition $\tag{1} \|X-F\| = distance(X, L)$, where $F=(f, g)$ is the focus point, $X=(x, y)$ is a point on the parabola, $L = \{Y | (Y-P)N = 0 \}$ is the directrix line, $N = (a, b)$ is unit-vector normal to the directrix (i.e. $a^2+b^2=1$), $P=(p,q)$ is a point on the directrix.
$distance(X,L) = |(X-P)N| = |(x-p, y-q)(a,b)| = |a(x-p) + b(y-q)|$
If I plug that back into $1$, I get:
$\sqrt{(x-f)^2 + (y-g)^2} = |a(x-p) + b(y-q)| \implies$ $\left(x-f\right)^2 + \left(y-g\right)^2 = \left( a \left( x-p \right) + b \left( y-q \right) \right)^2 \implies$ $\tag{2} k_{x^2}x^2 + k_{y^2}y^2 + k_{xy}xy + k_{x}x + k_{y}y + k = 0$
Where $$ k_{x^2} = a^2-1 ;\\ k_{y^2} = b^2-1 ;\\ k_{xy} = 2ab ;\\ k_{x} = 2(f - a^2p - abq) ;\\ k_{y} = 2(g - abp - b^2q) ;\\ k = a^2p^2+2abpq+b^2q^2-f^2+g^2 $$
How can I derive necessary conditions for the constant coefficients, in order for the equation to be for a parabola?
I suppose we need to prove that not at least one of $k_x, k_y$ should be $\ne 0$, but I don't know how to prove that (by using the parabola definition in equation $1$ above).
We know that $N \ne (0, 0)$, so not both $a, b$ can be $0$. However, even proving at least one of $P, F$ has to be non-0 also is out of my reach for now. When $P=F=0$, I get $(a^2-1)x^2 - y^2 + 2a\sqrt {1-a^2} xy = 0$, and I'm stuck in proving that's not a parabola.
Thanks!
Context
Starting with a wrong premise that the sufficient condition for a parabola is $ab=c^2$, I started the question for the first part of the generic parabolic equation here.
Now, thanks to getting an answer to that question, I understood that that's neither sufficient nor even correct condition, and since the recommendation is to start a new question, that's what I'm doing here, with the wish to get to the generic parabolic equation, together with the sufficient conditions.