I was wondering what books would be good for helping develop a more sophisticated understanding of concepts in maths for a physics/maths degree. For reference, I'm doing a def-thm-proof style Real Analysis course (I'm a first year), and I find that while there are some books to help me further iron out creases that emerge from lectures (Rudin + Abbot together), I can't really find that for physics. I'm not so interested in books on physics subjects, but rather the methods. I was talking to my RA tutor and he mentioned that a proper treatment of differential forms is important for understanding why physics texts derive equations by "now make this a small change dq resulting in a dF" and it still works.
I was pointed to David Bachman's Geometric Approach to Differential Forms, for a proper treatment of the subject for this hand-wavy "make this dx" shenanigan that arises often in physics, but I was also suggested that going into my second year to study Gelfand and Fomin's book on Variational Calculus. I was just wondering if there are better options out there for these texts, and if there are other books or topics that I should be aware of to prepare for my studies (for me it's difficult to just accept the hand-waving and I'd like to approach these topics with more rigour lest I don't really understand what's going on).
I think closed integrals on surfaces and lines is in a weird state at my university between assumed knowledge and to-be learnt knowledge, so if there are any good multivariable calculus books or the like (I've studied linear algebra too), I'd greatly appreciate any suggestions. Thanks!