Let us write the problem in matrix form
$$\pmatrix{x_{n+1}\\y_{n+1}}=\underbrace{\pmatrix{1-2/n&-1/n\\-1/n&1-1/n}}_ {:=M}\pmatrix{x_{n}\\y_{n}}+\pmatrix{4/n\\3/n} \tag{1}$$
Make a change of variable $\color{red}{(z_n,t_n)=(x_n -1,y_n - 2)}$, the equation $(1)$ can be simplified as
$$\pmatrix{z_{n+1}\\t_{n+1}}=M\cdot\pmatrix{z_{n}\\t_{n}}\tag{2}$$
Diagonalize the matrix $M= U^{-1}D_nU$ where
$$U= \pmatrix{\frac{1+\sqrt{5}}{2}&1 \\\frac{1
-\sqrt{5}}{2}&1}$$
$$D_n=\pmatrix{1-\frac{3+\sqrt{5}}{2n}&0 \\0&1-\frac{3-\sqrt{5}}{2n}}$$
Then
$$(2) \iff \pmatrix{z_{n+1}\\t_{n+1}}=U^{-1}D_nU\cdot\pmatrix{z_{n}\\t_{n}} \iff U\pmatrix{z_{n+1}\\t_{n+1}} = D_n\cdot U\pmatrix{z_{n}\\t_{n}}\tag{3}$$
Denote $\color{red}{V_n = \pmatrix{V_{n,1}\\V_{n,2}} = U\pmatrix{z_{n}\\t_{n}}} \in \mathbb{R}^2$, then
$$(3) \iff V_{n+1} = D_n\cdot V_n$$
$$\implies V_n = \left(\prod_{i=1}^{n-1}D_i \right)V_1 = \color{red}{ \pmatrix{\prod_{i=1}^{n-1}\left(1-\frac{3+\sqrt{5}}{2i}\right)&0 \\0&\prod_{i=1}^{n-1}\left(1-\frac{3-\sqrt{5}}{2i}\right)}} \cdot V_1 \tag{4}$$
We notice that, for all $a>0$:
$$\begin{align}
\prod_{i=1}^{n-1}\left(1-\frac{a}{i}\right)&=\exp\left(\sum_{i=1}^{n-1}\ln \left( 1-\frac{a}{i}\right) \right) \xrightarrow{n\to+\infty} 0 \tag{5}
\end{align}$$
because the series $\sum_{i=1}^{n-1}\ln \left( 1-\frac{a}{i}\right)$ diverges to $-\infty$ (We have : $\ln \left( 1-\frac{a}{i}\right) \sim -\frac{a}{i}$ for $i$ large and $\sum_{i=1}^{n-1} \frac{a}{n} \xrightarrow{n\to+\infty} +\infty$).
From $(4)(5)$, we deduce:
$$V_n \xrightarrow{n\to+\infty} \pmatrix{0\\0}\implies \pmatrix{z_{n}\\t_{n}} = U^{-1}V_n \xrightarrow{n\to+\infty} \pmatrix{0\\0} \implies \color{red}{\pmatrix{x_{n}\\y_{n}} \xrightarrow{n\to+\infty} \pmatrix{1\\2} } $$
We conclude that $a_n = x_n +y_n \xrightarrow{n\to+\infty} 3$.