Firstly, the identity needs correcting - the sum should be from $i=0$. If you take the sum from $i=1$, the identity does not hold. For example, put $l=1$, then
\begin{equation}
\frac{1}{2}\sum_{i=1}^{1}(2i)^{2} = 2
\end{equation}
whilst
\begin{equation}
\sum_{i=1}^{1}2(l-i)^{2} = 0
\end{equation}
so no identity there! The original question obviously contains a typo.
What we need to actually prove (and which is an identity) is
\begin{equation}
\frac{1}{2}\sum_{i=0}^{l}(2i)^{2} \equiv \sum_{i=0}^{l}2(l-i)^{2}.
\end{equation}
We can take the factors of $2^{2}$ and $2$ outside the summations straight away, so we now have
\begin{equation}
\sum_{i=0}^{l}i^{2} = \sum_{i=0}^{l}(l-i)^{2}.
\end{equation}
Edit
Actually, as @DS points out in the comments, this already proves the case, since every term in the sum of $i^{2}$ appears in the sum over $(l-i)^{2}$. However, for a longer proof, multiply out the brackets on the right
\begin{equation}
\sum_{i=0}^{l}i^{2} = \sum_{i=0}^{l}(l^{2}-2li + i^{2}).
\end{equation}
The first term in the brackets is a constant, so remembering that we are summing from $i=0$ to $l$, this will get multiplied by a factor of $(l+1)$. That is
\begin{equation}
\sum_{i=0}^{l}l^{2} = (l+1)l^{2}.
\end{equation}
The second term involves the summation over $i$. I shall assume that you are familiar with the identity
\begin{equation}
\sum_{i=0}^{l}i = \frac{l(l+1)}{2}.
\end{equation}
Inserting these results into the expression above, we now have
\begin{align}
\sum_{i=0}^{l}i^{2} &= l^{2}(l+1) - 2l\frac{l(l+1)}{2} + \sum_{i=0}^{l}i^{2} \\
&= \sum_{i=0}^{l}i^{2},
\end{align}
as required.
Since we have now proved
\begin{equation}
\frac{1}{2}\sum_{i=0}^{l}(2i)^{2} \equiv \sum_{i=0}^{l}2(l-i)^{2},
\end{equation}
it is easy to show explicitly why
\begin{equation}
\frac{1}{2}\sum_{i=1}^{l}(2i)^{2} \not\equiv \sum_{i=1}^{l}2(l-i)^{2},
\end{equation}
since
\begin{equation}
\frac{1}{2}\sum_{i=0}^{l}(2i)^{2} \equiv \frac{1}{2}\sum_{i=1}^{l}(2i)^{2}
\end{equation}
but
\begin{align}
\sum_{i=1}^{l}2(l-i)^{2} &\equiv \sum_{i=0}^{l}2(l-i)^{2} - 2l^{2} \\
&\not\equiv \sum_{i=0}^{l}2(l-i)^{2}.
\end{align}
Hence the original expression is incorrect.