I would solve the original problem this way. You have two states: the first being one container $V$ with compositions $\alpha_1 = 0.43$ liquid 1, $\alpha_2 = 0.20$ liquid 2, and the remaining $\alpha_3 = 0.37$ liquid 3. The second state has two containers: one container $\beta V$ with compositions $\delta_1 = 0.5$ liquid 1 and $\delta_2 = 0.5$ liquid 2; and the other container $(1 - \beta) V$ with composition $\gamma_1$ liquid 1, $\gamma_2 = 0.1$ liquid 2, and $\gamma_3$ liquid 3.
The only unknowns here are $\beta$ (which is the fraction of the original volume still left in the first container), and $\gamma_1, \gamma_3$ (the fractions of liquids 1 and 3 in the second container).
By conservation of volume of liquid 2, we have
$$\alpha_2 = \delta_2 \beta + \gamma_2 (1 - \beta)$$
Everything is known here, except $\beta$! So, we can solve for it:
$$\beta = \frac{\alpha_2 - \gamma_2}{\delta_2 - \gamma_2}$$
and
$$1 - \beta = \frac{\delta_2 - \alpha_2}{\delta_2 - \gamma_2}$$
By conservation of volume of liquid 3, we have the relation (after dividing by $V \ne 0$)
$$\alpha_3 = \gamma_3 (1 - \beta)$$
giving
$$\gamma_3 = \frac{\alpha_3}{1 - \beta} = \boxed{\frac{\alpha_3 (\delta_2 - \gamma_2)}{\delta_2 - \alpha_2}}$$
By conservation of volume of liquid 1, we have
$$\alpha_1 = \delta_1 \beta + \gamma_1 (1 - \beta)$$
giving
$$\gamma_1 = \frac{\alpha_1 - \delta_1 \beta}{1 - \beta}$$
$$= \boxed{\frac{\alpha_1 \delta_2 + \gamma_2 \delta_1 - \alpha_1 \gamma_2 - \alpha_2 \delta_1}{\delta_2 - \alpha_2}}$$
I'll leave it to you to check, but when I substitute the given values of the known variables, I get $\gamma_3 = \boxed{\frac{37}{75}}$ and $\gamma_1 = \boxed{\frac{61}{150}}$. Although not asked for, the proportion of $V$ that remains in the first container is $\beta = \boxed{\frac{1}{4}}$.
This answer looks like a solution to the system you suggested as well, based on one of the comments.