I always prefer to let my variables
go to $0$,
so,
in
$\lim_{(x,y)\to(2,3)}(3x^2y^2 + 4xy-12)$,
let
$x = 2+u$ and $y = 3+v$.
This expression becomes
$\begin{align}
3x^2y^2 + 4xy-12
&=3(2+u)^2(3+v)^2 + 4(2+u)(3+v)-12\\
&=3(4+4u+u^2)(9+6v+v^2) + 4(6+3u+2v+uv)-12\\
&= 3\cdot 4\cdot 9+12 + \text{ terms in }u\text{ and }v\\
&= 108+12 + \text{ terms in }u\text{ and }v\\
&= 120 + \text{ terms in }u\text{ and }v\\
\end{align}
$
so the limit as $u, v \to 0$
is $120$.
Note that you do not need to know
the exact ecpressions with $u$ and $v$
since they all go to $0$ with
$u$ and $v$.