This is partial answer,
As Sasha emphasized the condition number of a matrix is dependent on matrix norm. If we denote p-norm of $A$ by $\left \| A \right \| _p$ for $p=1$ and $p=\infty$ the norms can be computed as:
$\left \| A \right \| _1 = \max \limits _{1 \leq j \leq n} \sum _{i=1} ^m | a_{ij} |$, the maximum absolute column sum of the matrix (wikipedia)
$\left \| A \right \| _\infty = \max \limits _{1 \leq i \leq m} \sum _{j=1} ^n | a_{ij} |,$ the maximum absolute row sum of the matrix (wikipedia)
$$A=\left(\begin{array}{cc} 19 & 20\\ 20 & 21 \end{array}\right) \Rightarrow A^{-1}=\left(\begin{array}{cc} -21 & 20\\ 20 & -19 \end{array}\right) $$
$$A=\left(\begin{array}{cc} 19 & 20\\ 20 & 21 \end{array}\right) \Rightarrow \left \| A \right \| _1 = \max(|19|+|20|,|20|+|21|)=41 $$
$$A^{-1}=\left(\begin{array}{cc} -21 & 20\\ 20 & -19 \end{array}\right)\Rightarrow \left \| A^{-1} \right \| _1 = \max(|-21|+|20|,|20|+|-19|)=41 $$
$$\kappa(A) = \| A^{-1} \|_1 \cdot \| A \|_1=41^2$$
$$A=\left(\begin{array}{cc} 19 & 20\\ 20 & 21 \end{array}\right) \Rightarrow \left \| A \right \| _\infty = \max(|19|+|20|,|20|+|21|)=41 $$
$$A^{-1}=\left(\begin{array}{cc} -21 & 20\\ 20 & -19 \end{array}\right)\Rightarrow \left \| A^{-1} \right \| _\infty = \max(|-21|+|20|,|20|+|-19|)=41 $$
$$\kappa(A) = \| A^{-1} \|_\infty \cdot \| A \|_\infty=41^2$$