Usually, we say that the measure of the diagonal of a unit square is 0, but that's with the preassumption the measure is Lebesgue measure in $\mathbb{R}^2$. But what if we are talking about a strange measure where its the product of a 1-dimensional Lebesgue measure and a counting measure? To be precise:
Let $X=Y=[0,1]$, $\mathcal{M}=\mathcal{N}=\mathcal{B}_{[0,1]}$, $\mu=$Lebesgue measure, and $\nu=$counting measure. If $D=\{(x,x):x\in[0,1]\}$ is the diagonal in $X\times Y$, then what is $(\mu\times\nu)(D)$?
According to the definition, it should be the infimum of the measure sum of all the possible "rectangle" cover of $D$. But in this measure $\mu\times\nu$, the only rectangles that have finite measures are those with either finite "height", or with Lebesgue-null "width", but clearly you cannot cover the diagonal with those thin strips (or rather 1-d line segments in the former case). Does that mean this diagonal has a measure $\infty$?