For (1): If $L_{PQ} \subsetneq X$ We have that $L_{PQ} \cap X$ is a finite set of points, say $P,Q,R_1,\ldots,R_k$. Theorem 7.7 of Hartshorne now gives that
$$i(L_{PQ},X,P) \deg P + i(L_{PQ},X,Q)\deg Q + \sum_{i=1}^k i(L_{PQ},X,R_i)\deg R_i = (\deg L_{PQ})(\deg X). $$
Now the degree of a line is one, while the degree of $X$ is three. So the right hand side is $3$ while on the left, the sum $$i(L_{PQ},X,P) \deg P + i(L_{PQ},X,Q)\deg Q \geq 4$$ which is a contradiction.
Second Proof (we assume $k$ is algebraically closed): We can reduce to the case that $X \subseteq \Bbb{P}^2$ as follows. Assume $P = [1:0:\ldots : 0]$ and $Q = [0:1:0: \ldots 0]$. Cut $X$ with the hyperplane $x_n = 0$. We will then have a hypersurface in $\Bbb{P}^{n-1}$, whose defining equation is the same as $X$ but we set the variable $x_n = 0$. Continue cutting with hyperplanes and we will have a hypersurface $X' \subseteq \Bbb{P}^2$ whose defining equation is still some cubic curve in the variables $x_0,x_1,x_2$. It is now enough to show that $X'$ contains the line $l_{pq}$ joining $p= [1:0:0]$ and $q = [0:1:0]$. This is because each time we cut with the hyperplane $x_i = 0$ for $i \geq 2$, the points $P,Q$ are always in these hyperplanes.
<p>If $X'$ did not contain $l_{pq}$ Bezout's theorem says $$(\deg l_{pq})(\deg X') \geq \sum (\text{intersection multiplicities}).$$ The left hand side is $1\cdot 3$ while the right hand side is at least $4$ since $p,q$ singular means their multipicities are at least $2$ each. This is a contradiction.</p>
Proof of (2) without using (1): Say the singular points are $[1:0:0]$ and $[0:1:0]$. Then the equation for your cubic necessarily has no $x^3$ and $y^3$ terms. Then using the condition that all the partials simultaneously vanish at both these points we get that your cubic is an equation in the variables $z^3,xz^2, yz^2$, contradicting irreducibility.