From playing around, it appears to me that
$$a_n=b_n\implies\mathrm{lim}_{x\to\infty}\left(\left(\sum_{k=0}^n a_k x^k\right)^\frac{1}{n}-\left(\sum_{k=0}^n b_k x^k\right)^\frac{1}{n}\right)=\frac{a_{n-1}-b_{n-1}}{n\ a_n^\frac{n-1}{n}}.$$
For example
$$\mathrm{lim}_{x\to\infty}\left(\sqrt{2+81x+3x^2}-\sqrt{5+40x+3x^2}\right)=\frac{41}{2\sqrt{3}}.$$
How to proof this?
(I have an approach, with lots of half backed steps: Taking the expression and plugging in $x=\frac{1}{y}$, I can make a "series expanstion at $x=\infty$ by considering the expanstion at $y=0$" and this way the right coefficients already pop up.)