The title basically says it all. I've just watched a video explaining (without any formal definitions) that the 'sum' of the natural numbers is equal to -1/12. Now, the more I read about mathematics the more it seems to be quite arbitrary - but then this isn't really a problem because from what I understand we are just playing with arbitrary rules.
The problem I have is that I think a lot of people feel naturally inclined to attach some real-world meaning to mathematics. I often see what seems to be sensationalist mathematics explained in layman's terms to provoke a feeling of 'mathematics broke reality!' or something like that.
I'm actually struggling to comprehend the idea of mathematics at the moment so my writing may not be entirely together but a representation of my current thoughts. I would appreciate some clarity - possibly to explain the notion of applying 'realness' to certain elements of mathematics over others.