In the square $[0,1]^2$, both conditions $x\gt0.7$ and $y\gt0.7$ are implied by the condition $\frac12(x+y)\gt0.9$ hence $T=\{(x,y)\in[0,1]^2\mid x\gt0.7,y\gt0.7,\frac12(x+y)\gt0.9\}$ is actually the triangle with vertices $(0.8,1)$, $(1,1)$ and $(1,0.8)$. The conditional density of $(X,Y)$ conditionally on $(X,Y)\in T$ is constant hence the conditional density of $X$ conditionally on $(X,Y)\in T$ is proportional to $(x-0.8)\cdot\mathbf 1_{0.8\leqslant x\leqslant1}$ and
$$
E(X\mid (X,Y)\in T)=\frac{\displaystyle\int_{0.8}^1x(x-0.8)\,\mathrm dx}{\displaystyle\int_{0.8}^1(x-0.8)\,\mathrm dx}=\frac{\displaystyle\int_0^{0.2}t(t+0.8)\,\mathrm dt}{\displaystyle\int_0^{0.2}t\,\mathrm dt}=\text{____}.
$$
The conditional distribution $f_{X|A}$ of $X$ conditionally on $A=[(X,Y)\in T]$ is
$$
f_{X|A}(x)=50\cdot(x-0.8)\cdot\mathbf 1_{0.8\leqslant x\leqslant1}.
$$
Textbook: basically any text dealing with continuous distributions and conditional expectations (plethora of them on the web). Which ones are suitable to you depends on your background.
Edit: If $X$ is an integrable random variable and $(B_n)$ are disjoint events with union $B$, then
$$
E(X\mid B)=\frac{E(X;B)}{P(B)}=\frac{\sum\limits_nE(X;B_n)}{\sum\limits_nP(B_n)}=\frac{\sum\limits_nE(X\mid B_n)P(B_n)}{\sum\limits_nP(B_n)}.
$$
If there are $N$ events $B_n$ and if $P(B_n)$ does not depend on $n$, it follows that
$$
E(X\mid B)=\frac1N\sum\limits_nE(X\mid B_n).
$$
Even in this case, $E(X\mid B)\ne\sum\limits_nE(X\mid B_n)$, some kind of weird algebraic coincidence excepted.