I know that frustum(conical) has a formula for its volume,i.e. $\frac1 3\pi h(r^2+R^2+rR)$, but why can't we place the average of two radii into cylinder's formula: $\pi(\frac{r+R}2)^2(h)$?
I need the reason why I get wrong answer on doing this.
I know that frustum(conical) has a formula for its volume,i.e. $\frac1 3\pi h(r^2+R^2+rR)$, but why can't we place the average of two radii into cylinder's formula: $\pi(\frac{r+R}2)^2(h)$?
I need the reason why I get wrong answer on doing this.
Suppose the conical frustum ("cone", for short) is standing upright, with the larger radius ($R$) at the bottom, and the smaller one ($r$) at the top.
Suppose you replace the cone by an "average" cylinder of radius $\tfrac12(r+R)$.
At the base, we will be removing a volume $V_{\text{base}}$, since the cylinder is smaller than the cone in this region. At the top, we will be adding a volume $V_{\text{top}}$. The cylinder will give us the same volume as the cone if $V_{\text{base}} = V_{\text{top}}$.
The added and subtracted volumes, $V_{\text{base}}$ and $V_{\text{top}}$, are both solids of revolution, formed by rotating triangles around the cylinder/cone axis. The two triangles have identical shapes, which is what leads you to believe that they produce the same volumes, I guess. But, in $V_{\text{base}}$, the triangle is swept along a larger circular path, so it has a larger volume than $V_{\text{top}}$. In short, $V_{\text{base}} > V_{\text{top}}$, which means we're removing more than we're adding. So, the "average" cylinder has a smaller volume than the cone.
There's a picture below. The yellow and blue triangles are the same size, but, when revolved, the yellow ones give a larger volume.

Essentially, what you'd need is the average of the areas of the horizontal slices into which the frustrum is cut by planes paralell to its base, not their diameters.