- For the first question it should be apparent that there is something wrong with it. Obviously a relation defined by modular congruence is reflexive and symmetric. But since this relation is defined by the "or" conjunction it need not be transitive. Your argument should go something like this.
Disproving by counter-example:
Just choose $a = 0, b = 3$ and $c = 8$.
Let $a \sim b$ since $a \equiv b \pmod 3$ and $b \sim c$ since $b \equiv c \pmod 5$ but $c - a = 8$ which is not divisible by $3$ or $5$ implying that $a$ is not related to $c$ and hence the relation is not transitive.
- Again for the second question proving that it is reflexive and transitive is easy since $a \equiv b \pmod n \iff n \ | \ (a - b) \iff n \ | \ (b - a)$ and since $n \ | \ 0 = a - a$.
To prove transitivity. Let $a, b, c, \in \Bbb Z$ such that $a \sim b$ and $b \sim c$
Then $a \equiv b \pmod 3$ and $b \equiv c \pmod 3$. Since congruence it self is a transitive relation $a \equiv c \pmod 3$. You can prove this if you wish by taking $ 3 \ | \ (a - b)$ and $ 3 \ | \ (b - c)$ then $3$ divides any linear combination of the two and hence $3 \ | \ (a - b) + (b - c) = (a - c) \iff a \equiv c \pmod 3 $. you can show that $a \equiv c \pmod 5$ in a similar way. Note that the "and" operator is used so you need to show "both" conditions are transitive. Q.E.D.
- As for the third. Let $(x, y), (u, v), (p, q) \in \Bbb R \times \Bbb R$
$x^2 + y^2 = x^2 + y^2 \implies (x, y) \sim (x, y) \implies S$ is reflexive.
$ (x, y) \sim (u, v) \iff x^2 + y^2 = u^2 + v^2 \iff u^2 + v^2 = x^2 + y^2 \iff (u, v) \sim (x, y)$ which implies that $S$ is symmetric.
$(x, y) \sim (u, v)$ and $ (u, v) \sim (p, q) \implies x^2 + y^2 = u^2 + v^2 $ and $u^2 + v^2 = p^2 + q^2 \implies x^2 + y^2 = p^2 + q^2 \implies (x, y) \sim (p, q)$ proving the relation is transitive. Q.E.D.