I want to show that a group of order $9$ is abelian without using "Sylow Theorem". I thought of using the theorem"If $$\frac{G}{Z(G)}$$ is cyclic then $G$ is abelian". Since $Z(G)$ is normal in $G$ , the factor group is well defined. Moreover since $|G|=9$, $|Z(G)|$ can be $1$,$3$ or $9$. If $ |Z(G)|=9$, then there is nothing to show. If $|Z(G)|=3$, then $$|\frac{g}{Z(G)}|=3$$ and since any group of prime order is cyclic, $G$ is abelian.
I am stuck with the case where $|Z(G)|=1$. All i need to show is that $|Z(G)| \gt 1$ and I will be through.
This is where I am stuck at the moment.
Any help will be appreciated.