Do the addition in columns, but first cross out groups of digits that add up to 10. For example, suppose you are adding:
$$\begin{array}{rrr}
1&3&2\\
1&1&1\\
1&7&2\\
&& 5\\
&9&5\\
&1&7\\
&8&6\\
1&0&2\\
&8&9\\
& 1&9\\
\hline
\end{array}$$
In the units' column we have 9+1, 6+2+2, 5+5, which is three tens:
$$\begin{array}{rrr}
\require{cancel}\def\x#1{\rlap{\!\cancel{#1}}\hphantom{#1}}
\def\b#1{\color{red}{\x#1}}
& \color{blue}{3} & \\\hline
1&3&\b2\\
1&1&\b1\\
1&7&2\\
&& \b5\\
&9&\b5\\
&1&7\\
&8&\b6\\
1&0&\b2\\
&8&9\\
& 1&\b9\\
\hline
\end{array}$$
In the units' column this leaves 7+2+9 = 18:
$$\begin{array}{rrr}
&{{3^{\color{blue}{1}} }} & \\\hline
1&3&\x2\\
1&1&\x1\\
1&7&2\\
&& \x5\\
&9&\x5\\
&1&7\\
&8&\x6\\
1&0&\x2\\
&8&9\\
& 1&\x9\\
\hline
& & \color{blue}{8}
\end{array}$$
Now find digits in the tens' column that add up to 10. Look at the big digits first, and then see if there are small digits that match. We match the 7 with the 3, the 9 with the 1, and the 8 with the 1 + 1. Cross out the digits as you match them so that you don't accidentally use a digit more than once:
$$\begin{array}{rrr}
\color{blue}{3}&\rlap{3^1} \hphantom{0} & \\\hline
1&\b3&\x2\\
1&\b1&\x1\\
1&\b7&2\\
&& \x5\\
&\b9&\x5\\
&\b1&7\\
&8&\x6\\
1&0&\x2\\
&\b8&9\\
& \b1&\x9\\
\hline
& & 8
\end{array}$$
The remaining digit in the tens' column is an 8, plus the 3+1 tens we carried from units' column:
$$\begin{array}{rrr}
\rlap{3^{\color{blue}{1}}} \hphantom{0}&\rlap{3^1} \hphantom{0} & \\\hline
1&\x3&\x2\\
1&\x1&\x1\\
1&\x7&2\\
&& \x5\\
&\x9&\x5\\
&\x1&7\\
&8&\x6\\
1&0&\x2\\
&\x8&9\\
& \x1&\x9\\
\hline
& \color{ blue}{2} & 8
\end{array}$$
Then the hundreds' column is easy:
$$\begin{array}{rrr}
\rlap{3^1} \hphantom{0}&\rlap{3^1} \hphantom{0} & \\\hline
1&\x3&\x2\\
1&\x1&\x1\\
1&\x7&2\\
&& \x5\\
&\x9&\x5\\
&\x1&7\\
&8&\x6\\
1&0&\x2\\
&\x8&9\\
& \x1&\x9\\
\hline
\color{blue}{8} & 2 & 8
\end{array}$$
(I generated this example at random, so it may or may not be typical. Sometimes you may need to match two large digits with a small digit, for example $8+8+4$. Sometimes you may want to match a large digit with one of the carried digits. There may be other tricks I didn't think of.)