Solution using Differentiation Under the Integral Sign:
Definition (from the source all knowledge, Wikipedia ;)):
$$\frac{d}{dx}=\left(\int\limits_{a(x)}^{b(x)}{f(x,t)dt}\right)=$$
$$f(x,b(x))*b'(x)-f(x,a(x))a'(x)+\int\limits_{a(x)}^{b(x)}{\frac{\partial f(x,t)}{\partial x}dt}$$
If the function doesn't depend on $x$, then we have the simpler solution that is the Fundamental Theorem of Calculus as taught in calculus textbooks, because $\frac{\partial f(x,t)}{\partial x}=0$.
In our case, we have the following: $a(t)=0$, $b(t)=t$, $f(t,\tau)=h(\tau)*e^{\tau-t}$. So we are going to now substitute.
$$f(t,t)*(1)-f(t,0)*(0)+\int\limits_0^t {\frac{\partial \left( h(\tau)*e^{\tau-t} \right)}{\partial t}d\tau}$$
The $h(\tau)$ factors out because it is not dependent on $t$ (assumed constant).
$$f(t,t)+\int\limits_0^t {h(\tau) \frac{\partial \left(e^{\tau-t} \right)}{\partial t}d\tau}$$
Take the partial derivative.
$$f(t,t)+\int\limits_0^t {h(\tau)*e^{\tau-t}*(-1)d\tau}$$
Evaluate $f(t,t)$
$$h(t)+\int\limits_0^t {h(\tau)*e^{\tau-t}*(-1)d\tau}$$
Full equality:
$$h(t)-\int\limits_0^t {h(\tau)*e^{\tau-t}*d\tau}=-10e^{-t}\cos(4t)-40e^{-t}\sin(4t)$$
Taking the original definition:
$$h(t)=-10e^{-t}\cos(4t)-40e^{-t}\sin(4t)+\int\limits_0^t {h(\tau)*e^{\tau-t}*d\tau}$$
Substitution:
$$h(t)=-10e^{-t}\cos(4t)-40e^{-t}\sin(4t)+10e^{-t}\cos(4t)$$
Simplify:
$$h(t)=-40e^{-t}\sin(4t)$$
Thus, it appears that your second solution is correct.