I am interested in the double series
$$\sum_{m=1}^{\infty}\sum_{n=1}^{\infty}\frac{(-1)^{m+n}mn}{(m+n)^2}.$$
I believe that this series is not absolutely convergent but converges by rows or columns,
$$\sum_{m=1}^{\infty}\left[\sum_{n=1}^{\infty}\frac{(-1)^{m+n}mn}{(m+n)^2}\right]=\sum_{n=1}^{\infty}\left[\sum_{m=1}^{\infty}\frac{(-1)^{m+n}mn}{(m+n)^2}\right]=S.$$
and would like to find both a proof of convergence and the value of $S$ in closed form.
As a first step, I considered the double power series:
$$F(x,y) = \sum_{m=1}^{\infty}\sum_{n=1}^{\infty}\frac{(-1)^{m+n}mn}{(m+n)^2}x^my^n$$
which I believe converges absolutely for $|x|,|y|<1$. For $x=y$, I was able to sum diagonally
$$F(x,x) = \sum_{m=2}^{\infty}\sum_{k=1}^{m-1}\frac{(-1)^{m}k(m-k)}{m^2}x^m =\sum_{m=2}^{\infty}\frac{(-1)^{m}x^m}{m^2}\sum_{k=1}^{m-1}k(m-k)=\sum_{m=2}^{\infty}\frac{(-1)^{m}x^m}{6}\Big(m-\frac{1}{m}\Big)=\frac{1}{6}\Big[\log(1+x)-\frac{x}{(1+x)^2}\Big].$$
and find the limit
$$\lim_{x\rightarrow1-}F(x,x) = \frac{1}{6}\Big(\log2-\frac{1}{4}\Big).$$
Note that the diagonal sum of $F(1,1)$ does not converge, but oscillates between $\pm \infty.$
My conjecture is that $S = \frac{1}{6}\Big(\log2-\frac{1}{4}\Big)$ but I have not found a way to directly sum by rows or columns. I also wonder if some extension of Abel's limit theorem can be applied here.