Let $u_n$ be a real sequence such that $\displaystyle u_{n+1}-u_n-u_n^2\to_{\infty} 0$.
Prove that either $u_n\to 0$ or $u_n \to +\infty$
Progress
- If $u_n$ is bounded,
it has a convergent subsequence $u_{n_k}$ that goes to $\beta$.
By assumption, $\displaystyle u_{n_k+1}\to \beta^2+\beta$
This proves that if $\beta$ is an accumulation point of $u_n$, then $\beta^2+\beta$ also is.
This forces $\beta \in (-2,0]$ (otherwise the sequence is not bounded)
And in this case, iterating and using the closedness of the set of accumulation points yields that $0$ is an accumulation point of $u_n$.
I should prove next that $\beta=0$, but I can't.
EDIT: the crucial point that I missed is going backward (rewriting $u_n-u_{n-1}-u_{n-1}^2\to 0$), as Krokop did in his answer.
- If $u_n$ is unbounded,
$u_n$ has a subsequence that goes to $+|-\infty$.
EDIT: this part still lacks a slick and elegant proof