I am reviewing the statistic. I read the book "Probability and Statistical Inference" which is written by Robert V. Hogg and Ellit A. Tanis.
There is a statement in the book says that: (Section: The Mean, Variance, and Standard Deviation) The sample standard deviation, $$ s = \sqrt{\frac{1}{n-1}\sum_{i=1}^{n}(x_i-\bar{x})^2}\geq 0,$$ is a measure of how dispersed the data are from the sample mean. At this stage of your study of statistics, it is difficult to get a good understanding or meaning of the standard deviation $s$, but you can roughly think of it as the average distance of the values $x_1, x_2, \ldots, x_n$ from the mean $\bar{x}$. This is not true exactly, for, in general, $$ s > \frac{1}{n} \sum_{i=1}^{n} |x_i-\bar{x}|, $$ but it is fair to say that $s$ is somewhat larger, yet of the same magnitude, as the average of the distances of $x_1, x_2, ..., x_n$ from $\bar{x}$.
Question 1: What book could provide a "good understanding or meaning" of the standard deviation for me.
Question 2: Why don't we define the sample standard deviation as the average distance of the values $x_1, x_2, \ldots, x_n$ from the mean $\bar{x}$, that is, $$ s:=\frac{1}{n} \sum_{i=1}^{n} |x_i-\bar{x}|. $$