Any order of operations is fine, as long as you are consistent in applying the same operation to both sides of the equation in every step. If you want to multiply by $3$ first:
$$
\frac{x}{3} + 2 = 5
$$
Multiply both sides by $3$:
$$
x + 6 = 15
$$
Subtract $6$ from both sides:
$$
x = 15 - 6
$$
Just work out the solution:
$$
x = 9
$$
Look at equations as a scale balance: anything you do will keep the scale in balance as long as you do it to both sides. The trick is to come up with a sequence of operations that eventually leaves the unknown on one side, and only knowns (in this case, numbers) on the other.
As a bad example, when we have $x+6=15$ we could, if we wanted to, decide to add $100$ to both sides. The equation would still be perfectly valid, but we wouldn't be any closer to finding $x$!
Finding a good sequence of operations will be challenging at first, but after some practice, it will become second nature.

If you were taught to solve equations in terms of "a $+$ when moved across the $=$ becomes a $-$", etc., I suggest that you forget all that and think instead in terms of a scale balance. This was certainly a breakthrough moment for me.
PS: The "rules" you refer to are just a convention for working out
expressions with non-existent or ambiguous parentheses, and have nothing to do with solving equations.