You're asked to find out an expression for the surface area, why bother with the volume? Anyway, finding the progression of the volume is a trivial problem (just the triangular number sequence).
The surface area is a little harder.
Sketch the diagrams for $n=1,2,3,4,5$. You'll need at least those many cases to be very clear about what's happening. Some cubes have 5 faces "exposed, some have 4, some 3 and some 2. Label them as "5-faces", "4-faces", etc.
Count how many there are in each configuration for these lower values of $n$.
You'll find that for $n \geq 4$,
The number of 5-faces = 2 (constant, since they're the "hanging corner" cubes)
Number of 4-faces = $(n-2) + 1 = n-1$ (a diagonal line at the "exposed surface" plus the single "bottom corner" piece).
Number of 3-faces = $2(n-2)$ (the left and right "edge rows")
Number of 2-faces = $T_{n-3}$, where $T_n$ is the $n$-th triangular number. This is a little tricky to see, but you'll see the 2-faces always stacked in a triangular profile with base $n-3$. So the number of 2-faces is $\frac{1}{2}(n-3)(n-2)$.
Now to find the total area, add all those up, weighted by the areas of each type of face. That is,
$$A = (5)(2) + (4)(n-1)+ (3)(2(n-2)) + 2(\frac{1}{2})(n-3)(n-2) \\ \therefore A= n(n+5)$$
Even though you established this expression for $n \geq 4$, you can quickly verify that it also holds for $n=1,2,3$. Therefore, you have a truly general solution.
You can prove it rigorously by induction by considering the change in the number of each type of face from $n \to n+1$. The reasoning would largely be intuitive, based on visualising the profile of the shape, just spelled out a little more formally.