Here's a sketch. Since $d = -a$, you can write $X = \left(\begin{array}{rr} a & b \\ c & -a\end{array}\right)$, which gives
$$X^2 = \left(\begin{array}{cc} a^2 + bc & 0 \\ 0 & a^2 + bc\end{array}\right) = (a^2+bc)I.$$
This allows you to write a general expression for $X^n$: $X^{2n} = (a^2+bc)^n I$ and likewise $X^{2n+1} = (a^2+bc)^nX$.
With these two in hand, we can evaluate the exponential:
$$\exp X = \sum_{n=0}^{\infty} \frac{1}{n!} X^n = \sum_{n=0}^{\infty} \frac{1}{(2n)!} X^{2n} + \sum_{n=0}^{\infty} \frac{1}{(2n+1)!}X^{2n+1}.$$
Making use of our above observation:
$$\exp X = \sum_{n=0}^{\infty} \frac{(a^2+bc)^n}{(2n)!}\, I+ \sum_{n=0}^{\infty} \frac{(a^2+bc)^n}{(2n+1)!}\,X.$$
Since $\exp X = \left(\begin{array}{rr} -1 & 2 \\ 0 & -1\end{array}\right)$, we see that $c= 0$, so that
$$\exp X = \sum_{n=0}^{\infty} \frac{a^{2n}}{(2n)!}\, I+\sum_{n=0}^{\infty} \frac{a^{2n}}{(2n+1)!}\,X.$$
From here, if you equate terms, you will find that $a = i\pi+2k\pi$ for some $k\in\Bbb Z$ and $b = -2$ as Nishant derived.