Without the usual math (i.e. the usual algebra you use to define these things), why should we want to define
$$\frac{d}{dz} = \frac{1}{2}(\frac{d}{dx}-i\frac{d}{dy})$$ $$\frac{d}{d\bar{z}} = \frac{1}{2}(\frac{d}{dx}+i\frac{d}{dy})$$
I keep forgetting the $\tfrac{1}{2}$ and keep forgetting the minus signs.
If we re-write $-i$ as $-i=\tfrac{1}{i}$ we can rewrite the above as
$$\frac{d}{dz} = \frac{1}{2}(\frac{d}{dx}+\frac{1}{i}\frac{d}{dy})$$ $$\frac{d}{d\bar{z}} = \frac{1}{2}(\frac{d}{dx}-\frac{1}{i}\frac{d}{dy})$$
which is a bit more intuitive since $\bar{z}$ is on the L.H.S. & there's a corresponding minus R.H.S. etc... but this still isn't intuitive enough - we can incorrectly derive them using something stupid like
$$\frac{d}{dz} = \frac{d}{d(x+iy)} = \frac{d}{dx} + \frac{d}{d(iy)} = \frac{d}{dx} + \frac{1}{i} \frac{d}{dy}$$
Is there a way to make this a bit nicer/logical and to include to $2$?
$$\frac{d}{dz} = \frac{d}{d[2(x+iy)]} = ...$$
Maybe with pictures?