I believe the answer is yes.
Lemma:
Let $V$ be a vector space and $f,g$ two linear functionals on $X$ such that $\ker g \subseteq \ker f$. Then there exists a scalar $c$ such that $f = cg.$
Now, fix $w \in V$ and consider the linear functionals $v \mapsto \langle v, w\rangle_1$ and $v \mapsto \langle v, w\rangle_2$. Their kernels are equal so there exists a scalar $c(w)$ depending on $w$ such that $$\langle v, w\rangle_1 = c(w) \langle v, w\rangle_2, \forall v \in V$$
Now, using symmetry:
$$c(w) \langle v, w\rangle_2 = \langle v, w\rangle_1 = \overline{\langle w, v\rangle_1} = \overline{c(w) \langle w, v\rangle_2} = \overline{c(v)}\langle v, w\rangle_2$$
We conclude $c(w) = \overline{c(v)}$ for all $w,v$ such that $\langle v, w\rangle \ne 0$. Since we can vary $v$ and $w$ independently, we conclude that $c(w)$ is actually a constant scalar $c$.
Hence $\langle v, w\rangle_1 = c \langle v, w\rangle_2$ for all $v,w \in V$.